Hello Bittersweet, I did not send this to my ex but to my brother and he has not yet responded. To send it to my ex would be futile. I need to distance myself from him. I sent him an email on my B day, Wednesday, To say thank you for all the B days he had made memorable and to wish him and ow many years of happiness. I have decided to let go and let god. To cling is to be needed and I want to shine and grow. Hugs pal, G