Every time I hear that song now, It won't be the same.
I feel your pain.
I can't go two or three days without my phone blowing up and with young children she calls at bed time so she knows I'm home. If you don't answer you have a tasmanian devil on your hands.
It is a good thing she is thinking of you a lot, however it's a distorted way of thinking. That song is so true. Pull back more and do a few things out of the ordinary.
Take her temperature so to speak, see how she reacts. It seems like she still wants you and the kids and her own little fantasy world all in one.
It sounds like you get called for anything and everything. OM can't even change a light bulb can he?