I got back in, she was getting in bed, she seemed to be looking for something, so I asked if there was something wrong. She kind of grunted, I said, "Sorry, I thought you were looking for something"
Hmmm.....Maybe nothing was wrong at all...???
Whenever my H would ask me, "Is something wrong/What's wrong/etc?", I have to be honest...it would bother me. The presumption seemed to be that something had to be wrong, when in fact many times nothing was. Why H felt that way or had to ask - I do not know - but from your W's reaction (the 'grunt'), it seems something got to her, too. Can't say what though. *Shrug*
Anyhow, maybe the next time something seems 'wrong', you could try asking "Need help with anything?" or "Is there anything I can get/do for you?" Just a thought.
I like the door panels! I think you should get them, and the bedskirt wouldn't be a bad idea either.
(((((Jeff)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
