Oh Woog, I think my H just felt like you really. Work and dates I can see might not work. I work in an all female environment so it would never happen for me, but then I,m not sure how it will happen for me and I am not sure its really what I want. I have been alone along time now.
You just need time to be.....whatever, sad, content, lovesick...
the intensity will pass and you might then be available for companionship now and again even if nothing develops.
It wouldn't be a waste to date even if you are moving, its just a date not a lifelong commitment. Just fun, no agenda just 2 people enjoying a much needed light relief from the daily grind.
Lots still to play for and the game is far from over so just wait and see. Try to gal whilst waiting tho-lol heard that somewhere before I think.