That you were so upset makes so much more sense now that I know that he bought the car especially for you to learn to drive, and that it was a special car that you picked out together. what a schmuck!! I LOVE Essie's idea that if you wanted one, you should buy yourself a car and learn to drive on it! that would be such an awesome, ballsy 180!
It would be nice to create rules for the WA's behavior but I don't think it would work in any situations. Even if we tried it would almost just give them a roadmap for how to make us really pissed off. Like Essie said, it seems we just have to prepared for them to give us the worst possible news at the worst possible time in the worst possible medium.
I think it is really interesting you couldn't tell oldest, dearest friend about H after the bomb! In my case it was seriously almost the ONLY thing I could talk about, with anyone I was close to!!
