LD- Glad it seemed to work out for all. Interpreting your W's behavior would be very tough since MLC has alot of commonalities but is still very individualistic.

I just think it is great that you went and you shined.. It is at the very least food for thought for your W.I also think that it is very telling that your w spent Thanksgiving with family and you. The OM got to be on the outside looking in.

That is huge.

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final