It's official.......what now?

[mishka422]

Thanks y'all! You are the best encouragement a girl could have.

PUNKT!!!!!!!!!! My gosh! I thought you disappeared off the face of the earth! Where have you been keeping yourself brother? What's been going on? I'm going to go look to see if you've written anywhere else.

Kalni - you're right. I just don't need to block myself, and I'm not. I am quite able to talk and laugh with anyone and show my personality. That's my "best feature" so I let it shine whenever possible.

Gabe is on his way to pick up Marc. He called me this morning because Marc's phone was turned off to tell me he would be here in 20 minutes and to have Marc stand at the corner since the broom would be in the car with him and he knew I didn't want her around here. I told him that was when we were M'd, now I just don't care what he does. I asked him what this idea about Marc spending the night with him tonight was. He said that he told Marc to ask me if it would be ok for him to spend the night with him since they were going to be kind of late. I told him he needs to ask me these things first before he poses them to Marc. He just doesn't get it at all! He told Marc to ask me - ummmm....hello! He's 14, he takes these things as statements, not questions. He decides what is going to happen and then makes a statement, he doesn't ask. It's not his job to ask anyway, it's Gabes. This is not his weekend and he already asked me if he could have Marc for the day for this thing they're going to. I gave up my day with Marc. Why couldn't he just ask me if he could spend the night? Ummm.....because that would have required thinking first.....DUH! The man puts no thought into what he's doing.

He got all huffy on the phone with me even though all I was saying to him was that he needed to ask me FIRST before he said anything to Marc about a shift in plans. He got stuck on "so do you have plans for him? I'll just bring him back tonight. You can tell him he won't be staying." First, I didn't say he couldn't stay, I said that in the future he needs to ask me first. Second, he doesn't see my point at all. Gee, surprise! The man isn't listening at all to what I'm saying. Say it ain't so! Third, if he wasn't going to be staying, I am not the one that is going to be the bad guy here. Let Gabe tell him.

Anyway, I told him that the point was that he needs to ask me first, that I'm working until 11p tonight so it's not a big deal if he's not home, and that he needs to be back by noon tomorrow. He is such a PITA! I swear, his attitude today just showed me again how glad I am NOT to be M'd to him any longer. I don't need his crap in my life. I have enough other problems, I don't need a 41 year old child to raise anymore.