thanks P....i appreciate it..

after 9 months, i'm finally, finally starting to see some real improvements. NOw, while the OM is still there, we are slowly working on becoming friends again. she may not be totally aware of these thigns, but i at least am. it's tough, because i want to go so much faster, but i also know it can't.

i als recall that i read on here that it takes about month for every year you've been together of permanent changes for the spouse to really start believing them. so tht means, i got 4 months to go...LOL>.........


ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..."
-Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams