Wife have moved out with my son..........now what

[nw626]

Sandi
Thanks for all your advices. I really appreciated it.
I am in a process of detaching/dropping the rope, and it is getting better. I realize that she will do whatever she wants and there is nothing I can do about it. Like you said, I DON'T have her now. So I can't let her action bother me like it was.
I am still snooping through her blog....yes I am ready for your 2x4s.
Through her blog, I found out W and OM has been on and off past months. I guess the OM's wife is somewhat watching him, who knows. I also found out there was a PA back in mid Nov when she flew out there to meet him. I didn't confront her with it. As of today, they are back together again. This is something interesting that she posted while the OM was gone for several days.

Here is what she said:
I had fall in love for the last time in my life. (Of course she means the OM...not me), So for this reason I will not marry again.
I felt a bit bummed because I liked being in denial.
I do want a boyfriend, but I think my expectations are a little high. I don't want a husband...just a boyfriend for life. If that makes sense. We should have a lot in common, such as equal intelligence, the same interests, and a really good sense of humor goes a long way. I have more, but the list would be way too long, so I stay undecided at the moment. I don't think there is anyone out there who have someone like me. I am not pathetic; I am high maintenance to a degree.

What do make out of this?
I guess she is still in fog....

Another question: I noticed every time my W contacts me is the same time that the OM has resurfaced. Why is that...?? Is it because she is in happy mood so drop me a note out of pity?
I just don't understand this at all.

As far as now, we pretty much only communicate mostly regarding on son or business.
As for me, I am busy Dbing, GAL and work on myself.
There is long laundry list that I am working on.
Hopefully I can become a better, more compassion person.

Also I am picking up my son for the whole next week. I can't wait.

I think I have opened up too many posts...
Sorry about the confusions...

Sandi: thanks for stopping by.

NW626