I don't think they do understand that the talking gets them into the situation.
I don't even feel like myself right now. Just kind of numb. What kind of a self centered bitch would do that to her friend, especially one just recoveing from cancer? One that doesn't even have any hair yet? She is disgusting to me. She actually told me that she was trying to help my H deal with his feelings about my illness! How? My f'ing him and blowing him in a sleazy motel room?
Starting to feel a little anger now
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
