I don't think they do understand that the talking gets them into the situation.
I don't even feel like myself right now. Just kind of numb. What kind of a self centered bitch would do that to her friend, especially one just recoveing from cancer? One that doesn't even have any hair yet? She is disgusting to me. She actually told me that she was trying to help my H deal with his feelings about my illness! How? My f'ing him and blowing him in a sleazy motel room?
Starting to feel a little anger now
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Yeah, Hope I can hear the anger. I understand you and everything you are saying. She wasn't a friend by any means! She is just a leech someone who feeds off of someone else's pain.
Hey Hope, the Tough Love book is it by York and Watchel? Or Love must be Tough from Dobson? I bet it is the Dobson book now that I read through some reviews.
I have gotten, Not Just Friends, and the 5 Love Languages books. When I am done with class on the 6th (YEAH), I am going to read some more! It is time to reread DR too.