Been a long time, but I've been thinking of you and wanted to stop in and read up on your thread. Congrats on the new position--that's a good break you deserved in the midst of all the uncertainty (on multiple fronts).
You seem to be in a good place overall...you sound pretty grounded to me. I think it's fine to go with the status quo. Your W. does indeed sound pretty confused. I have a sense that she knows her scenario is tenuous. You've been great in remaining civil, if a little detached. I hope to find my way more to that kind of place.
