Bettou, I'm not a lawyer. I run a healthcare IT organization. I have our legal department on speed dial. Almost every decision we make has regulatory issues.
My W seems to be doing OK physically though she has just gotten over a bad sinus infection.
All of this came about when she started working out and lost a lot of weight. She took a cross-fit class and started looking great. The OM worked next door...don't know the whole story but he must have pursued her and she responded.
Your comment about SS My Marriage Made me Miserable is great. She cannot articulate a problem in our marriage other than I was "moody." It might be a problem but does not justify adultery.
