He is looking at me lovingly, speaks to me nicely and shows lots of attention and care. He definitely feels more and morev comfortable around me. But I was there before and I'm afraid to trust the signs of recovery.
Your H is definitely not done with the M and you do still have a chance. He is still in the fog, so you have to go very slow. Try to respond positively to him but remain detached for your own sake. I understand how very difficult it is to trust again when you have been betrayed by your spouse more than once.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz