Sometimes goodbye is a second chance

[KenF]

phbear,
from an exDAM, he's not asking about the furniture or what you're taking. thats just a front, he cant believe you're actually do it and it freaks him out. and trying to discuss what you're taking is just the best excuse he can come up with. also, he may be trying to put on a tough front like - "she thinks she can do this to me? I'll show her"

I agree with Ellie to a certain extent, but within reason, you dont want to do or take anything that would cause you guilt later. Right now the anger, as completely justifiable as it is, could excuse almost anything. Later when you're free from the anger, guilt has the tendency to raise its ugly head.

enjoy your move, enjoy your new place, do it with all the grace and dignity you deserve.