If your H responds true to form he will blame you for any difficulty he encounters.
Although his papers were so ridiculous, that I HAVE to respond and in disagreement.
H hasn't said for a long time, but he bemoans that he feels like a kid.
Yet...he keeps making immature decisions!!!
And...I'm used to being blamed for everything. It doesn't matter if I treat him nice, or argue the heck out of him...he is still depressed, negative and .... well, he's just absent.
But...seriously....when in the HECK does reality EVER bite their ugly butts?????
How are you now...did your D take a long time?
Thanks for your insight
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
