Mine didn't believe we really had to do all the paperwork that was required to get a divorce. "Why can't we just be divorced?" Then when her lawyer sent her a hefty bill it was my fault. She retained him, told him what to do and when the charges arrived they were my fault.
If your H responds true to form he will blame you for any difficulty he encounters.
Expect the worst and whatever happens won't seem so bad.
Last edited by sleeper; 11/28/0801:19 AM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.