Bettou, I feel the same way. My W is going through a MLC and depression. She just cannot see it. She has become so self-centered. She does not see the hurting she is causing even for my D7.
We have had so many bad days and nights for all three of us that I've tried to back way off. I really am trying to create a safe place emotionally for both my W and D7. It seems to be working but there is always a 800lb. gorilla in the room. My D7 is hurting and it breaks my heart.
