Hi Stella Sounds like you are doing really well! Its good to read your updates. Your H is making a bit of a mess isnt he - shame that it impacts on you too.... but it sounds like you are doing an amazing job of being detached from his mess! Good for you.
Is it time you took control of the situation about your daughter? Its probably the worst part of the whole yucky situation. Maybe daughter wont react as badly as you are imagining, and it might be helpful for you not to have it hanging over your head?
