I know how hard this all is. I am sorry you are struggling. You are not alone in the little things causing pain, like rearranging the furniture.
Like you said to me, I will be here tonoght and happy to help any way I can.
It is a positive that you had a pleasant meal (I know it hurts that having fun makes you wonder all the more, why they want to leave). I also think it takes time for those positives to add up in their minds to one solid reason to stay. It is hard for us because we do not want out and cannot imagine lookig for reasons to get out. But their perspective is screwed up. They are unhappy so they see things from that slant.
People here keep saying time is our friend and I think I am slowly starting to understand that. While it hurts like he!! to be apart, it will take them time to come around, so the more time we can give them the better.
