You are all so loving and sympathetic!!!!!! It is so lovely to get all of your messages!!

I am going to call B sometime soon.... maybe... Saturday?? I dunno. I have no idea what his thanksgiving plans are and didn't want to call him if he was celebrating with an OW!! I told myself it is his choice whether or not to take the call though. I think I'm just procrastinating because I am still pretty stressed... I am memorizing melodies for my sightsinging final on monday (only 125 melodies... \:\( why did I go to grad school??) I do need to call him before I actually show up in new york mid-december, at least to give him some advance notice.

being home is a little more stressful than it was over the summer, probably because I'm actually trying to get work done now instead of just "going with the flow" with my family.

(((J))) I'm proud of your strength in the face of H's recent ridiculousness!!

((((Ali)))) I'm excited for your driving trip tomorrow with BF. I'm sure he will love the music you ripped for him, and of course your delightful company!

((((essie)))) it's so good to see you!! what is going on in your sitch? No news on your thread?

(((lisa))))) I think maybe the other grad student didn't realize what he was doing (when he picked c#).... ??? Are you taking a break from starting your own thread?? I was worried I offended you with my last post.