Creeping through no man's land

[BeingMe]

Well, OW certainly has nothing to do with S16, except to assist in the continued break-up of his family (although your H is mostly to blame for that). I just feel your H is just very childish, and can't manage a grown-up divorce. There is definitely something wrong re his personality, and the choices he makes in his life. Like an ostrich pretending something isn't there if he just puts his head in the sand deep enough, and long enough.

No matter what he does, your family history will never go away, you will always be the mother of his children, and there will always be that moment in the past when he truly loved you, and he did so for many years.

Sad, but I'm glad you are moving on somewhat --- you are the adult and able to work through your issues. I had hoped his psychology class would've given him some insight.

Take care.