Yes...there is ALWAYS a chance for reconcilliation after D. It is how you go about it. Being a good human being and doing things different this time around is what gets the ball rolling. Sort of like dating....you have to do the right things...and, unfortunately, maybe this time around the other things that you do may not be enough to spark that other person's interest in you again. BUT!!!! On the positive side of this....you never know until you try!!! People want to be with a happy, out-going person....they want to do things....go places...and even do something daring...on a whim....so, if this is the path you want to try...TRY IT!!! It can't hurt anything....and since you've been there, done that type of thing....it's no holds bar on being an outstanding catch! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain....sounds like one of those cheesy info-mercials!!!!!
Hi FA, It seems pointless while they are with OW and in love. So I will just work on my now and then in time should that desolve he will see that I am going forward on my own journey to find me and forgive me and love myself more. Thank you G