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Re: When THEY let go of US Cinderellaman #1659383 11/26/08 06:29 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,246 W whitelight Member
whitelight Member W Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,246	cut out the carbs and drink lots of water.

Re: When THEY let go of US whitelight #1659588 11/26/08 09:40 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	right... I will start tomorrow ! (No, really, it's late here and I don't plan to eat from now till morning! haha)Thanks Whitelight !xx PS. Went shopping with H, wasn't too bad, very very quick, we finished within the hour and didn't even have a drink afterwards..:( little disappointed at the time, but I'm fine now ! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When THEY let go of US Cinderellaman #1659698 11/26/08 11:37 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Cinders, Regarding eating less, don't eat any carb after 18.00 hrs. Just eat maybe a yoghurt or apple or drink some warm milk in the evening. If I eat chocolate or any carb in the evening, I notice it the next day. - Good luck with it. Regarding your H I am sorry that he did the shopping so quickly. Maybe next time he will have more time. Have a good day tomorrow. (((HUGS)))

Re: When THEY let go of US Truelove #1659898 11/27/08 07:25 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Great advice guys...trying it out today ! $\:\)$ True, I posted to you on your thread, (((hugs))) Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When THEY let go of US Cinderellaman #1660030 11/27/08 03:16 PM
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MidwesternGirl Member M Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 7,941 SW USA	Hi, Cinders!! Thinking of you. The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19

Re: When THEY let go of US MidwesternGirl #1660100 11/27/08 05:04 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Great day ! $\:\)$ My friend turned 40 and invited 27 friends to join her for lunch in a fancy restaurant ! WOW ! I'm amazed how people do that in these days of crisis, then again, I suppose not everyone has been affected. It was lovely. H called to tell me he was on his way but still too far to make it on time to pick up the kids from school, so I went to get them. H came in a little later...it was nice and relaxed, we chatted a bit and then he went upstairs with S5 to play with the playmobil stuff that used to be his when he was a small boy..they had such a good time, I left them to it..whilst a friend popped in for some help with her computer. Then at 5.45pm H decided it was getting late and they all left to go to his place. I looked great after that lunch and the house was filled with warmth and laughter, I can't help but to feel that it's important for H to see and feel that over here. No, ow call...I wonder if he mentioned it to her... Oh well. I'm going to watch Grey's Anatomy tonight and Private Practice ! Great stuff ! $\:\)$ Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When THEY let go of US Cinderellaman #1660241 11/27/08 10:44 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Cinders, Thank you for your nice post on my thread. I am happy for you that you had a good time celebrating with your friend. At least you are lucky that your H is still interested in coming home and play with your kids. Most MLCers stay away altogether. I wonder whether your H really mentioned something to OW regarding not calling - LOL! Have a lovely week-end. (((HUGS)))

Re: When THEY let go of US Truelove #1660707 11/28/08 09:52 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	A question for the veteran posters... Did you all get to a point where you still missed your spouse, but knew that it was just highly unlikely he/she would be back, so you just start living your life..with maybe a far far away hope, but 'knowing' better...?? I guess the question is to both LBS's, the ones that restored their marriages and those that didn't.. Thanks ! x Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When THEY let go of US Cinderellaman #1660714 11/28/08 10:06 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY M MissH Member
MissH Member M Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,375 NY	Cinders, that is EXACTLY where I am now. Me:35, ex: 36 Sons: 9 & 7 Bomb: July, 2006 Divorced 2009

Re: When THEY let go of US MissH #1660720 11/28/08 10:13 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Originally Posted By: MrsH Cinders, that is EXACTLY where I am now. Yep, so am I ! $;\)$ Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

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