Hi MWG and Cinders, Thank you for your comforting words and compliment. I do appreciate your posts so much.
Cinders: I am also not so tall but my car is not so high that I could not reach the roof.I tried to wash it once in summer and got myself very wet. That was the first and last time I washed the car at home!
Oh, I almost forgot to mention: On Tuesday I met some new people at the club I went to, and I used "X husband" for the first time in my life. It felt strange to say it, but I guess I have to get used to it. When people asked me what I did, I tried not to talk about what H and I did but talked more about what I did.
