At least you did not argue with H at the parents evening
I went solely with the intention of NOT arguing with H even if had tried to goad me (as I had expected - he surprised me there). The only thing I had resolved to not waiver on was the involvement of OW if he had insisted on bringing her.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15