I am so sad, and I do hurt for my kids...the boys had plans to throw the football and watch games...I told H that d8 was making the dinner with me....and H bailed on them.

d8 been making cookies, helped prep the turkey...

Snodderly you are so right when you say H is only out for himself!!

H was very depressed last year too...not much change in a year...except he filed D papers

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home