W came by this morning to get a recipe for stuffing so she could make it at her Grammas this weekend when she takes the kids.
I was scheduled to go to Las Vegas this tuesday/wednesday to install some computer equipment and she was going to stay over with the kids. Yesterday afternoon we decided to postpone a week so I told her that this morning.
She was ok with it but said she had stuff scheduled that day in the evening and that this tuesday she 'had it in her head that they would decorate the house'.
Now, the girls and I have talked about getting a tree and stuff already but W always breaks out the house decorations before that.
The thing is, I really don't know what to say to her. I didn't comment but it's like I feel like I should just do the decorating next week myself with the girls. Or, tell her that it's MY thing to do with them. I know that will hurt her a lot though.
I'm stuck on this one. She has no home of her own since she rents a room at her friends.
She also went on to tell me that she's been changing the addresses on her bills to go to her P.O. box which she 'needs to check more often'. She said she's slowly moving herself out.
Anyway, it's Thanksgiving and I'm grateful for my kids and my life turning around. I'm grateful that W and I can be pleasant to each other. I'm sad that she's moving on with her life without me.
