WCW: My H filed for d in July 06. From that date on I am not liable for any bills that he incurs. I have been his doormat for almost 3 years now. I will not move forward with the d and still wish for his return, but I feel like he has totally used me for the insurance. (See my posts from sept regarding the eyeglasses).
My H has no remorse for his actions. He takes, takes takes and doesn't give. He wants everyone to do everything for him and if you don't he has a fit. Kinda like a 2 year old. My focus is on my real children. Stopping his insurance is an effort to open his eyes to the fact that I am not a doormat.
He can blame me all he wants, in the end he has to look himself in the mirror. He lost his friends, our son, and the respect of his family by behaving like a teenage.
Snodderly: He came by today to pick up d13 to take her to his sister's. She was a little miffed as she wanted to drive over with s16....but of course H has to show all that not everyone is angry with him. What a joke.
I couldn't even make eye contact with him while he was here. I hope he is happy. I really wish that he would just take his mow and go away.
S16 tm'd me from sil's. Said H is very awkward there. Not sure what he means by that. S16 wants nothing to do with H. It should really be interesting to see what comes of today. S16 and all of his uncles will be watching football and chatting and this will probably really hurt H.
Not sure how the day will go for the kids. I hope they have a good time. H will probably fall asleep in a corner somewhere.