PS: I do tend to think that she truly feels threatened by you because you have become the respository and the identified cause of those feelings. When she has to see you every day, however briefly, she can continue to think those anxious feelings come from having to see you. If there is any way you can use a third party to exchange baby without seeing her, I think it will work to your benefit in the long run. I suspect she would find that her fearful feelings are still there, and yet, no Carlos to blame them on.
