Does MLC contribute to WAW? Infidelity?

[sleeper]

Hi Alex

Only you can diagnose your W's sitch. Some say when a WAW leaves they are done, it's over, they don't look back and there is no mistaking it. MLC WAW may look like this at first but then there will be changes.

Trapt's advice is good, go to the mlc resource threads. Read stages of mlc.

Has she said anything like this?

I don't know who I am anymore.
I want to live a life, not just exist.
I'm all messed up.
It's not you, it's me.
I don't want to hurt anyone.
I still want us to be family.
We are getting old.
I want to live before I die.
I think I'm depressed.
You're trying to control me.
Stop trying to parent me.
I deserve to be happy.

New hair, clothing style, talk of plastic surgery?
Dressing like she did when she was a teenager?
Obsessed with the culture of her adolesence (i.e. the 80's)?
General obsession with appearance?
New friends, activities.
Cut contact with old friends, family, HER CHILDREN?
Spending like a madman?

Ever wonder if she's developed multiple personality disorder,is bi-polar or on drugs because you don't recognize the personality in your W's body?

If the above describes your W it's probably mlc.

Sorry this is so long, I feel like I have a phd. in this crap from The University of Hard Knocks.

fade to "Pomp and Circumstance"..........