Because I don't talk about this with anyone around me, because everything seems to get back to her, I only you all.
Ah, you learned the "zip the lips" lesson the hard way, but at least you learned it. Friends love to stir the soup, don't they? Even if they think they are helping. Only 5 days ago my sister wanted to call my W, because they were such good friends. I said, "Uh, no." It would only have served to make W feel guilty, which, according Jim Conway, is not a very good idea. I hope you have a good day. For me, sometimes a good day is just not doing anything stupid. Start there. Your joy will return and so will your confidence, but it will take some time. Listen to these people. AmyC is very wise. If you listen and do, the process won't be as painful as it would be if you didn't.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
