5 months is no time at all. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but it's true. It is said that MLC takes 2 1/2 to 5 years to run it's course. However, I wouldn't lock in on that. What gets me through is prayer. You must not focus on circumstances. Stop talking to friends about the situation. If you have one good male friend who is supportive, talk to him. No matter what you say, it will get back to her and sabotage your efforts. You want to do nothing that will allow her to continue blaming you. All of these people have affairs. You can get past it. Sooner or later it will be OM aggravating her, not you, because you aren't doing or saying any aggravating things. Read my email to the previous poster and check out those web sites. They are very supportive. I'll check you out on WAW syndrome.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
