"I certainly hope you're not going to Los Angeles to hook up with your boyfriend. That would be incredibly disrespectful to our family while we're still married."
Let her respond.
If she denies it, say "I hope you're telling me the truth, and I will know if you are." If she admits to it, say "Thank you for being honest with me -- that gives me clarity as to what I must do while you are gone."
And then say nothing further.
Now of course, you don't have to do ANYTHING while she's gone, but the ominous statement will at least ruin her good time!!
Unfortunately she has left already - bright and early this morning. I was sleeping like a baby (medically aided) and didn't hear them leave.
Heard more from OMW which may explain things. Apparently there was a call a couple weeks back. OM and OMW on speaker phone to W. OMW heard that there was agreement for no further contact.
May explain the cave dweller and pissy attitude to me but over the top with kids.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Heard more from OMW which may explain things. Apparently there was a call a couple weeks back. OM and OMW on speaker phone to W. OMW heard that there was agreement for no further contact.
{{Lost}} Sounds like an interesting sitch..I guess you'll have to wait and see how it plays out and very cool that you have a good communication line with the OMW
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Heard more from OMW which may explain things. Apparently there was a call a couple weeks back. OM and OMW on speaker phone to W. OMW heard that there was agreement for no further contact.
Then why the L.A. trip????
Puppy, Main reason for LA was D16 soccer tournament. In talking with OMW, the schedules overlapped. So was somewhat coincidental.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
{{Lost}} Sounds like an interesting sitch..I guess you'll have to wait and see how it plays out and very cool that you have a good communication line with the OMW
Tawnya
The communication line is neat. Wasn't expecting that. More reality bites for W which is good I think.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Hope all of you south of the border have had your fill of turkey! The gobblers that remain out there are resting easier now..
Not much happening here in terms of the sitch. OMW (yup still chatting via text) did mention to me that she had heard that W had D papers all done, just hadn't served them yet, but that this could also be b.s. because that is all she had heard lately. Did see a "work-in-progress" financial affidavit with numbers crossed out and updated, old information, etc. Likely done the last time W was at EGF's a week ago. Still don't know what she hopes to accomplish by serving - she needs us to be apart for a year before effective anyway, so she may as well move first.
Enjoying time with D11 and S13.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
{{{Lost}}} Glad you are enjoying your time and it sounds like the same as in my state where you have to be separated for a year..so it wouldn't do much good would it?
Hope you have a good evening!
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
