Where your husband is now,is where you want him.Confused and not knowing what he wants. Now you have to show him what he has with you and why he should stay with you.Think of things from the past and what made him happy.Let him figure out his thoughts and once he does you will know whatever decision he makes it will be on he made. He dos love you you can tell by his actions just give him little things here and there and give him things to wonder about