BBJ,

Hope your thanksgiving is a peaceful one. This is not how we envision what are supposed to be family gatherings. Concentrate on the folks who love you...it is hard but you are not only Dan's wife. You are a mother, a sister, a daughter, a cousin, an aunt ......a friend. You are undoubtedly surrounded by people who love you for who you are. Go out ther and enjoy their company!!!!

BIG hug!