Mish, I agree with Donna, you cant expect to do it all and be perfect and calm and efficient and strong and smiling and supporting others and .., and.., and...
The emails Donna suggsted looked very good to me. I know that you get upset because you feel you have no control while Gabe is doing as he wishes and you have no choice to refuse. But look at the other side of this, isnt it good that Marc will be with his dad and you get a night with no worries? (well, figuratively speaking)
Take it slow, things may seem overwhelming but you can do it. Love ya K Happy Thanksgiving!!
