Hi ba- I love your list. It is inspiring to me when people here whose lives are in a turmoil can still find so many things that they are grateful for. I think about everything I used to take for granted before. I am hoping that once I get through this experience, I will remember to appreciate what I do have and not dwell on what I don't.
You are so right about limboland sucking!!! And you are absolutely right that if you do give your H an ultimatum, you better be prepared to follow through.
I hope that IC continues to help your H but be prepared that it isn't a quick fix either. I thought if my H went to C that it would be a matter of a few month and he'd be moving home. Ha! But I guess it didn't take them just a few months to get the way they are so we need to prepared to give this some time.
