(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) sweety, I'm so sorry he's still blaming you. Snodderly is right, it's him projecting..you are a wonderful lady and I think that deep down he truly knows that. Hence his comments about how much he loved you.
Take care sweety and have fun at the Christmas party.
Oh by the way, I agree about the window scraping...I'm not all that tall and drive an SUV...boy, sometimes I can't even reach halfway, the other day in the snow I was just too cold to even try scraping them clean, but I guess what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger ! x
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus