Jay, I thought of somehting else. If you approach her to want to watch her play her game on the computer. Try not to show any negative attitude like you suspect her of wrong doing or she will sense it immediately. If you can act upbeat and just say something to the affect that it seems if you are going to get to spend any time with her, you'll have to watch her play. Or if you don't know how to play the game she's into....that is a good excuse....you want to learn how. Act as if you are interested in the "game" and not what she is doing. But, she won't go to her friends list with you watching. And, she won't do any flirting on the chat board with you there, but you will pick up on a sense of anger b/c you are invading her privacy and her space and her time with the OM.
I hope to God, sincerely, that I am wrong. But, I don't think I am.
I'll talk to you later. Take care.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
