My H ended up texting me at midnight last night telling me he had been feeling sick again. I just feel like he uses it as an excuse for everything. He said we would talk in the morning. He never called so I called him. We ended meeting later for a drink and then joined me and my kids at the movies. After the movie I asked if he decided what he was going to do tomorrow. He said he couldn't decide (he asked if that was wierd) but I can tell by things he was saying that he convincing himself that it is right to fly up to see his D tomorrow. As I was leaving my H said to me "I know you want me to come over tomorrow". I couldn't resist replying "No. I want you to WANT to come over tomorrow." I left it at that.
No matter what I know I have many things to be thankful tomorrow and everyday.
Hi na- I am going to discuss my H's lack of follow through at our next C session. And I do know that if my H isn't with me tomorrow, it isn't about me...but does bother me that he can't man-up and continues to come up with excuses for just about everything.
Hey ba- It is nice to see you posting again. I hope better days are ahead for all of us. Thanks for your encouragement.
