Hey there glam- Good for you for getting to the gym so you feast guilt free tomorrow. I so desperately need to regularly get back to the gym. Last year I was in such great shape...now I seem to find lots of excuses not to get to the gym.
You seem to be handling your H's distancing pretty well. I am sure it won't last long. My H does the same thing when he isn't feeling well...and he seems to be feeling sick much more frequently lately. I wonder if it is stress or maybe an excuse. I know it is about the depression, but when I get depressed, I want to be around people and I want to talk to the people who care about me. I don't get why they want to crawl under a rock.
If you and your spouse are supposably trying to work on your M and you go more than a day without contact, I think it is difficult for the LBS...at least it is for me. At C this week, I brought up that I asked my H about having some kind of daily contact. The C told my H that my request was reasonable and my H seemed to understand. The C talked explained to him that it is about feeling a connection. I don't know if it will change anything or not but I guess it was worth a shot.
Hope your turkey turns out nice and juicy and you have lots of whipped cream for that pumpkin pie. Happy Thanksgiving.