Sorry I took so long to reply...been really busy this week.

I teach middle school, grades 6-8. While some can handle it either way, most kids have difficulty when their parents divorce. My parents are divorced and I never wanted that for my children. I also never wanted my husband to cheat on me but we don't always get what we want.

Funny you posted this. I was talking to my best friend last week about if I could stand living with him for the next 3 years so both the kids would be out of high school. I am stubborn and told her I thought I could. Later that night I saw a quote....Love and resentment cannot live in the same heart. Eventually one of them has to die...that sure hit home with me.

I still feel like I am in a fog with all this. People talk about an illness or accident being a life-changing event. This has been like an illness for me. I did not want it, did not ask for it but all of the effects are hitting me like a ton of bricks. I cannot escape.


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11