Got your Thanksgiving wishes and am steering some in your direction.
"Project Dan" goes on without fail. How are you doing with your daily devotional?
I am in the process of thinking of a new thread title which more than likely will land in "piecing". Things are currently as good as they have been between my darling and me for quite some time. We seem to be connecting on new levels. I think the title should have the words --mending, bridging (and for some reason I can't get the biblical ref of "fisher's of men" out of my mind ..guess the Lord has it there for a reason).
Be careful on your journey. Don't over-react. Get in line with the Lord's plan and only His plan. The love between you and H surely is real (as you know) in both directions. Make sure you are continuously nurturing it in various ways direct and in-direct. You have every right to be angry and dismayed for the constant state of utter confusion that he is in. Turn that troubling stuff over to our magnificent Lord as if receiving redemption for recyclables. Rise above the garbage that unfortunately H is struggling so mightily to shed off himself. His conscience is very active it seems to me. I expect it will truly cause him to collapse and he will be ground to a screeching halt. You, my dear must just be you. You are terrific. Live to please the Lord. He should always be your first and primary 'husband'. Strive for unconditional love. Stay in motion and smile as it pleases the Lord to see you with a beautiful smile on your face.