ndsmhelp, Please know...even I didn't know how bad it was until I was able to step back and see things for what they are. Thanksgiving will feel different this year. D12 is going to be with her Dad (necessary, but sad for me). My darling sister is out of town, but the rest of the gang made the trip to Portland, and is making room for a turkey feast as I sit here typing. Have a wonderful day tomorrow, everyone! love, Goldey