Is she is or is she ain't (my baby)?

[sleeper]

She has now called twice that I know of (landline unplugged) since she arrived at her destination. One call on the cell was from her phone, the other from OM's phone. She left one voicemail in which she sounded miffed and said she, "wanted to tell the kids goodnight". She didn't call last night to wish them goodnight. I had the kids try to return her call when I discovered this but she didn't answer (touchet?). She also wished us a "Happy Thanksgiving."

I'm a little angry right now and getting tired of this.

It's like she has decided she is entitled to her little mlc. The kids and I are supposed to be at her disposal. If we are not or are I am not playing by HER rules there will be H*ll to pay. She actually screamed at me that she would make my life a "living hell" if I didn't comply with a request she made regarding the kids one particular evening about a year ago (she was really under the posession of the alien that night and had a dead look in her eyes I have not seen since).

It's as if I have two choices:

Set some major boundaries and face immediate WWIII.

Continue the way I have and go on like this forever.

On the other hand I may be totally misreading this. She may be wondering if I'm out on a date and that's why I'm not answering my phone. Or maybe I'm totally done with her and not answering the phone when she calls.

My only hope is that she is upset when I don't answer such calls and OM notices and is irrated by it.