Hi Julia, Looking through my mess of Jody notes. My next step after ow email & having a meeting set up w/my H. I was supposed to present myself to my H as mysterious,strong, fun, confident & carefree. There was supposed to be no R talks, as I was supposed to act as if he did have OW. My position was supposed to be his business is his business & mine is mine. I suppose in a nutshell - it's to show him that I had moved on as well.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)