The next stage, maybe

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Julia, In my sitch when I pushed for a meeting w/my H it gave me a chance to see him & have some R talks. For me after R talks, I felt much better. I atleast had some view of where my M was at. I was terribly tired of the limbo & wanted out of it. My H then decided to file for divorce, & I'm ok w/it. So what is your goal??

If you choose option 3 - I would only have a face to face meeting. If it's that important to him - then he will meet you.

In the UK do they have free divorce consultations? Here in the US they do & I met w/2 lawyers. I just wanted to know all the ramifications, if it did go towards D. Just something to think about.

To me his text was insensitive. Yet under the circumstances, I guess I would have expected it.

This could also give you a chance to talk about other financial matters too.