OK, I am really starting to hate my H. He came to pick up the kids. I had them all ready and their stuff packed and went upstairs to work out (yeah, totally trying to avoid him). H comes up and he did knock on the door, but then came in to tell me he had scheduled the kids for educational evaluations for FSU Tuesday morning. He sent me half a dozen emails this afternoon and said nothing about that.
He came in and gave me a thick sheet of paperwork and forms from the testing center. He tells me at 6:20 pm when the atty is gone for the holidays until Monday. Says he talked to my lawyer (at the depo) and she agreed with the testing at FSU, which I think is a bunch of crap, depos aren't usually like that I don't think. I told him I would have to speak with my L and he said doesn't matter b/c he's going to take there them anyway with or without my consent.
I feel like this is going to be a no-win for me: if it comes out that they are delayed educationally which I contend b/c of their autism/dyslexia he will use that against me to say it's b/c of my homeschooling. If their evaluations come out well, they may say oh public school is fine for them which is just crap. My son attended a small nice private school and it was me doing all the tutoring for him to learn anything.
I hate, hate, hate this guy. No feelings for him left except negative ones. Guess that's good in a way though. I want to email H this but maybe I should wait the 48 hours or whatever. What do you think?: I don't understand why you didn't let me know about the evaluation until 6:20 pm Wednesday when my lawyer is out for the rest of the week for the holiday? (Although really I think it's b/c he's a total ftard of course!!!) I believe I should have some input into the evaluations of the kids and will check with the atty on Monday. These are my children as well. You have always said you want me to inform you about the kids which I have always done, and I think it would be nice if you could return the favor by emailing me with pertinent info re: the kids and as I've told you before I prefer email. (rather than having to see his ugly, creepy face didn't put that in but it's true) Thanks!Karen
