Hi all! Perhaps you can help me out because I'm not sure what to do. WAS only contacts me when there's a reason and only discusses the problem. No personal questions or interest in me at all. I guess he thinks that he's giving me hope when he shows some interest in me. And he doesn't want me to have hope. Should I initiate contact and show some interest in him and let him know that I'm there for him or rather stay dark because it would only put pressure on him? I'm working on my 180s but it's hard to let him notice as there's hardly any contact at all, mainly on the phone. Please help!
Me -32 BF -28 together since 2002 not married no kids